Someone asked me : " Are you angry with anybody?"
As I was thinking about my reply, I suddenly realized something which I wanted to share with you.....
I replied : " I am not angry with anybody..... If there is someone with whom I am angry, its me and me alone....."
All the emotional feelings start because we expect something from others and we want others to fulfill our expectations..... When they are unable to fulfill our expectations we are either angry or sad..... While agony leads us no where..... anger may lead us to disastrous effects.....
Well, I believe the whole purpose of living is to be happy personally and successful professionally..... Though we don't realize that we are happy when we are , we definitely realize that we are unhappy when we are not happy..... The lamenting feeling that someone whom we love had not reached our expectations make us sad.....
Anger is one letter short of danger..... When we are angry, we don't realize what we speak or do..... We get angry because someone had not reached our expectations but what are we doing??? Shouting??? Is this what others expect from us??? While getting angry about someone not reaching our expectations we are unseeing there expectations on us.....
Looking back into the situation, when our mind is calm, we will realize that we are also to be equally blamed... The other person might be wrong, but does shouting at them solve any problem????
All these happen, just because we expect something from others... Is expecting something from others wrong???
Donno.... Think it out....
